The Misunderstanding (by Dewey Ho)

There is another I would like to address to http://www.deweyhoteckwei.blogspot.com was another blog impersonating me, media authority had taken it down and further investigation is in process on finding the culprit. This blog had led to a rising feud by a friend/colleague, Beatrice, who was featured in the blog as well, which strike a very unhappy post written by her, http://www.beatricejhys.blogspot.sg. Contents in her blog are based on her own personal opinion and the conversation screen shot was indeed me, however if it has been exaggerated and taken out of context. Till now I am still confused if the blog posting meant that she is innocently being framed as my latest victim? Or I am the victim? Much as it deemed, someone is obviously trying to character assassinate me. Since the world like to hear stories, let me clarify.

Bea for short, personally requested to learn from me. Naturally the time spent allow a better understanding between each other. Least expected to be malign, victimise and taken advantage by her over me giving her the attention and concern. Yes, she did approach me for help both personal as well as work related. Like for any other colleague , I would always do my best to offer my assistance and advises.

On Nov 2013, when she first came to me insisted that she has been sexually abused by an acquaintance, I was speechless upon hearing this, advising her to immediately stay away from the mentioned. I had believed that she took my advice seriously. Months later, she came to me only to confess that she has been engaging into physical activities with the same individual whom she claimed, back then that she was sexually abused. I was puzzled and confused by her actions and so I asked further. She explained to me that she has grown fond of that person and also, confessed that she liked and enjoyed. She then revealed to me that the person demanded more physical activities including wanting her “virginity”- she claimed she was a virgin at the point of time. Since she sounded like she doesn’t like to be treated that way by a guy, I told her its best to learn how to say NO.

That’s where I send her “you will let me fuck you?” was meant to mean, you don’t have sex with just anyone just because you can’t say NO! This is the part that was taken out of context, and fingers started to point at me. Why wasn’t the whole conversation shown?

All I would sincerely like to convey in this post, my personal blog (not an imposter), to Bea, the public, and the gossip-fanatics, please get yourself straighten out. Be concrete on your words and not to mislead. One plain lie can infest into many lies to cover up. Who you want to sleep around with is none of my concern. As a friend, I had gave my attention, assistance and advice. I will much appreciate if you stop using my goodwill messages to make it look as though I want to sleep with you. Please show some respect, I have a personal life to care for besides work.

As for the rest of the world, thank you for the kind words, concern emails and calls.

I do admit in this whole series of incidents, I learnt a very important lesson, I made a mistake of being too trusting, too open to help, without thinking of the consequences on how others could manupilatively used my words to cause so much hurt and misunderstandings.

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